I don’t know if we can work on unbecoming as a project the same way we work on becoming something acceptable to others. I think it a way of feeling into yourself to get a sense of what’s real and innate and what is grafted on.

Love is usually the missing element, love of others, the world and of ourselves. Early separation from love is extremely disorienting, but that’s what we have to find, love. It start with us and our capacity to love regardless, to forgive everybody, including ourselves.

However we find a path to that, it’s the true path.